What’s the problem with over- and under-addressing problems?

Maybe you feel you aren't being controlling... but are you?

What should you beware of when you're escalating or closing toward your spouse?

Can undersharing harm a relationship?

How does being argumentative block your spouse from hearing your perspective?

Are we coming across as aggressive or accusing without realizing it?

What vulnerabilities are in place that are blocking relationship with your spouse?

Do you tend to think your responses are the result of what your spouse did?

Are you interpreting your spouse as the problem?

Do you maximize your problems and minimize your spouse's?

Do you have a tendency to blame your spouse for the problems in your marriage?

When your spouse shares with you something important to him/her, how important do you make it to yourself?

How did we get here, and how do we get back?

What is our own contribution to the negativity in the relationship?

How does the negative spiral spin?

Do you have an unworkable mindset when working through issues?

Do you immediately get on the warpath when your spouse presents and issue?

Is your heart message pushed aside while your spouse shares something "more important"?

Are you coming across as aggressive?

Must it be all about me, or can I catch my spouse’s heart message?

Are you more aggressive or avoiding when resolving marital issues with your spouse?

How does removing roadblocks open your communication pathway?

Are we pushing our spouse away?

Why do we withdraw from conflict?

What blocks resolving conflict?