Do we force our spouse to please us?

Who is speaker, and who is listener?

Do you take your turn as a good listener?

Are you sharing your heart to help your spouse receive your message?

Did you know the way you start communication can determine how it goes?

How do we begin presenting our topic?

How do he and she differ in communication?

Do we know how to behave with our spouse’s heart?

Have we put on our hearing ears?

Has the way you’ve been sharing working for you?

Is our listening honorable?

Have you verbalized your unmet expectations?

Do we appreciate our differences?

How would you feel if your spouse showed genuine interest in what you were saying?

Do you tend to hint at what you wish your spouse would know about you?

Can you feel the respect in your response?

Are there rules for healthy communication?

How may we improve our chances of being heard?

Are you standing in your own way of catching the right message?

How do we maintain connectivity while our spouse is sharing?

It takes two to communicate, but how do we do it right?

When our spouse shares a problem, we need to be willing to adjust. How might we do that well?

How are men and women different in the way they navigate conversation?

What is the balance between sharing too much and not enough?

How would you take communication deeper?

Are we open to our spouse’s perspective?

How can we set aside our own agenda to hear our spouse’s message?

How do you let your spouse know what you need in the marriage? Couples need to be aware of the different needs of the husband and wife in the deepest of relationships to facilitate marital growth. Let's talk about his and her core needs and a good way to make those needs known.

How often should we bring up marital issues?

Are we willing to do what it takes to really listen?

How can we be a better listener?

How can we be a better listener?

How can we be a better listener?

What does it take to make a good connection?

Can we connect with something different?

Do we dismiss our spouse’s ideas?

Are you aware of what’s frustrating to you as a listener?

Did you catch the right message?

How do you become a better listener?

How do we take turns in dialogue?

How does good timing support your message?

What is the impact of gentle vs harsh startup?

What is your tone of voice doing to your message?

What are your triggers and what are they telling you when communicating with your spouse?

How does monologuing defeat your sharing?

How can we speak for ourselves and avoid speaking for our spouse?

What does it mean to flip roles when communicating?

What are your expectations and how do they sabotage communication?

What do you do if your listener doesn’t appear to be listening?

Are you willing to help your listener overcome his/her hurdles to receiving your message?

What do you do when your listener is overwhelmed?