What’s the problem with over- and under-addressing problems?
How do we make decisions together when we have such different perspectives?
Repairing and soothing can help us stay calm during conflict and keep it healthy.
Do you tend to think your responses are the result of what your spouse did?
Do you have a tendency to blame your spouse for the problems in your marriage?
When your spouse shares with you something important to him/her, how important do you make it to yourself?
Is your heart message pushed aside while your spouse shares something "more important"?
Does your relationship feel like a wild ride, and you don't know how you got here or how to get off?
Did you know your negativity is tearing apart your marriage?
Can you talk about what are you afraid will happen when conflict doesn’t go well?
Have you ever attempted to share a heart message only to be pushed aside as the speaker while your spouse shares something "more important"?
How does resolving conflict remove waste and prevent walls between a husband and wife?
How does unconditional love and acceptance help repair relationships?
Do God and your spouse get the best of your time, focus, attention, enthusiasm?
What is God’s design for marriage?
Are you trying to act like a single person, but get the benefits of being married?
Must it be all about me, or can I catch my spouse’s heart message?
