

How do we get rid of the buildup from unresolved issues?

How do we talk about the deeper issues of the heart to take our relationship to a deeper level?

How does unconditional love and acceptance help repair relationships?

How does resolving conflict remove waste and prevent walls between a husband and wife?








Did you know the way you start communication can determine how it goes?









What can you do when your husband will hardly speak to you?



Are you more aggressive or avoiding when resolving marital issues with your spouse?

Have you ever attempted to share a heart message only to be pushed aside as the speaker while your spouse shares something "more important"?

Must it be all about me, or can I catch my spouse’s heart message?




Can you talk about what are you afraid will happen when conflict doesn’t go well?


Are you trying to act like a single person, but get the benefits of being married?



Is your biggest problem that you aren't recognizing and embracing that which is male and that which is female in your relationship?

Did you know your negativity is tearing apart your marriage?







Do God and your spouse get the best of your time, focus, attention, enthusiasm?



Does your relationship feel like a wild ride, and you don't know how you got here or how to get off?

Is your heart message pushed aside while your spouse shares something "more important"?


Is your own perspective so loud in your mind you can't hear anything else?



Do you immediately get on the warpath when your spouse presents and issue?



What is our own contribution to the negativity in the relationship?



Do you address problems quickly or wait until you explode?








How do we share gently and receive influence from our spouse?

When your spouse shares with you something important to him/her, how important do you make it to yourself?

Do you have a tendency to blame your spouse for the problems in your marriage?



Do you tend to think your responses are the result of what your spouse did?

What vulnerabilities are in place that are blocking relationship with your spouse?

Are we coming across as aggressive or accusing without realizing it?

Have you made your spouse aware of the things that derail communication for you?



How does being argumentative block your spouse from hearing your perspective?


How do we unravel a conversational mess to understand how to avoid the same missteps next time?



What should you beware of when you're escalating or closing toward your spouse?


Repairing and soothing can help us stay calm during conflict and keep it healthy.

How might you help your spouse become aware of your challenging preferences or triggers?

What can you do to improve the chance your spouse may really listen when you share?







How do we make decisions together when we have such different perspectives?




How might we unintentionally come across as aggressive or disinterested in marriage?


What’s the problem with over- and under-addressing problems?


How can we use surface communication to set up deeper communication?


What is God’s design for marriage?

How does removing roadblocks open your communication pathway?

Which needs could you meet to refuel your marriage?

How will you maintain marital growth?

What will you talk about to deepen your relationship?
