Is your wife withdrawing or becoming increasingly intense?

What can you do when your husband will hardly speak to you?

How do we clean up our marital trash?

How do we get rid of the buildup from unresolved issues?

How do we talk about the deeper issues of the heart to take our relationship to a deeper level?

How does unconditional love and acceptance help repair relationships?

How does resolving conflict remove waste and prevent walls between a husband and wife?

What expectations have we created, and how do we create new ones?

In situation X, I feel Y, and I need Z.

Do you set up your conversations?

Are we flexible to change to blend with our spouse?

Ready. Set. Go?

Do you start sharing to open or close your spouse to hear you?

How do we position ourselves to be heard well?

What difference does a safe environment make?

Have you created a safe conversational atmosphere?

What does empathy look like during conflict?

What are the benefits of conflict?

How does improving our apology improve relationship?

Is your perspective standing in your way?

Are you trying to act like a single person, but get the benefits of being married?

Are we willing to please our spouse?

What blocks resolving conflict?

Are you more aggressive or avoiding when resolving marital issues with your spouse?

Have you ever attempted to share a heart message only to be pushed aside as the speaker while your spouse shares something "more important"?

Must it be all about me, or can I catch my spouse’s heart message?

Why do we withdraw from conflict?

Are you coming across as aggressive?

Can you talk about what are you afraid will happen when conflict doesn’t go well?

Are we pushing our spouse away?

Are we reducing hurdles to help our spouse catch our message?

Is your biggest problem that you aren't recognizing and embracing that which is male and that which is female in your relationship?

Did you know your negativity is tearing apart your marriage?

What do we do when communication goes out of bounds?

Are there two in your one?

What are some steps to soften a hard heart?

Do God and your spouse get the best of your time, focus, attention, enthusiasm?

How does conflict benefit our relationship?

How does managing conflict well draw us closer?

Does your relationship feel like a wild ride, and you don't know how you got here or how to get off?

Is your heart message pushed aside while your spouse shares something "more important"?

Do you dominate the relationship and silence your spouse?

Is your own perspective so loud in your mind you can't hear anything else?

What if everybody’s talking, but nobody’s listening?

Do you immediately get on the warpath when your spouse presents and issue?

Do you have an unworkable mindset when working through issues?

How does the negative spiral spin?

What is our own contribution to the negativity in the relationship?

Are we friendly in marriage?

How did we get here, and how do we get back?

Do you address problems quickly or wait until you explode?

What do we do with those challenge we’re stuck with?

How will we behave when it doesn’t go our way?

Will we choose to believe our spouse is well-intentioned?

How do we choose to view our spouse?

What are couples in healthy relationships doing to make it last?

Are you willing to be “We” in decision making?

How do we share gently and receive influence from our spouse?

When your spouse shares with you something important to him/her, how important do you make it to yourself?

Do you have a tendency to blame your spouse for the problems in your marriage?

Do you maximize your problems and minimize your spouse's?

Are you interpreting your spouse as the problem?

Do you tend to think your responses are the result of what your spouse did?

What vulnerabilities are in place that are blocking relationship with your spouse?

Are we coming across as aggressive or accusing without realizing it?

Have you made your spouse aware of the things that derail communication for you?

Are our motives and intentions pure?

Are you afraid of confrontation?

How does being argumentative block your spouse from hearing your perspective?

Can undersharing harm a relationship?

How do we unravel a conversational mess to understand how to avoid the same missteps next time?

Are both of us willing to adjust?

Might you have a perspective that’s blocking seeing your spouse’s heart?

What should you beware of when you're escalating or closing toward your spouse?

Maybe you feel you aren't being controlling... but are you?

Repairing and soothing can help us stay calm during conflict and keep it healthy.

How might you help your spouse become aware of your challenging preferences or triggers?

What can you do to improve the chance your spouse may really listen when you share?

Am I the speaker or the listener?

Dictator or spouse?

What sets up healthy and unhealthy relationships?

What sets up the negative spiral?

How would taking turns help?

Are you in control of you?

How do we make decisions together when we have such different perspectives?

How can we learn from a clash?

What's a man to do with a crying, wounded woman?

How does tone of voice twist a well-intentioned message?

How might we unintentionally come across as aggressive or disinterested in marriage?

What’s the problem with over- and under-addressing problems?

How does it hurt the relationship to overlook negative emotions?

How can we use surface communication to set up deeper communication?

What is God’s design for marriage?

What is God’s design for marriage?

How does removing roadblocks open your communication pathway?

Which needs could you meet to refuel your marriage?

How will you maintain marital growth?

What will you talk about to deepen your relationship?

How do we resolve conflict in other relationships?